{"id":30295,"date":"2024-02-27T06:00:28","date_gmt":"2024-02-27T10:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gravitycommons.com\/?p=30295"},"modified":"2025-03-07T18:54:53","modified_gmt":"2025-03-07T22:54:53","slug":"of-bathwater-and-babies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gravitycommons.com\/es\/of-bathwater-and-babies\/","title":{"rendered":"Del agua jabonosa y los beb\u00e9s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando las personas inician un proceso de \u201cdeconstrucci\u00f3n\u201d o cuestionan la forma en que se les ha entregado la fe, una respuesta com\u00fan por parte de amigos o familiares preocupados es \u201cAdelante, haz preguntas, pero no tires al beb\u00e9 con el agua del ba\u00f1o.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero creo que este es un imperativo poco \u00fatil, porque el discernimiento de lo que es \u201cel beb\u00e9\u201d y lo que es \u201cel agua del ba\u00f1o\u201d es precisamente lo que se busca en el proceso de deconstrucci\u00f3n.<\/strong> La gente se somete a la deconstrucci\u00f3n exactamente por qu\u00e9<\/em> quieren conservar al beb\u00e9. Si la diferencia entre el beb\u00e9 y el agua de la ba\u00f1era fuera obvia, la deconstrucci\u00f3n ser\u00eda innecesaria.<\/p>\n

Es m\u00e1s, a menudo lo toda raz\u00f3n<\/em> las personas se dan cuenta de que necesitan deconstruir es que han sentido que dentro de su construcci\u00f3n de fe heredada, existe una confusi\u00f3n ya presente entre el agua sucia y el beb\u00e9 que est\u00e1 causando problemas: nunca se tira el agua sucia, por lo que el beb\u00e9 nunca se limpia, o el agua sucia est\u00e1 siendo tratada como el beb\u00e9, etc. As\u00ed la gente consiente en someterse al proceso de deconstrucci\u00f3n <\/strong>para el prop\u00f3sito espec\u00edfico<\/strong><\/em> no tirar al beb\u00e9 junto con el agua de la ba\u00f1era.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Es solo que parte de descifrar eso consiste en hacer preguntas sobre las definiciones de \u201cbeb\u00e9\u201d y \u201cagua sucia\u201d que hemos heredado. Y no es algo que puedas discernir \u201cde antemano\u201d antes de empezar a hacer las preguntas que el discernimiento requiere. No puedes simplemente decidir no tirar al beb\u00e9 con el agua sucia, porque esa es precisamente la distinci\u00f3n que buscas discernir. Hay un riesgo inherente en el proceso de descifrar qu\u00e9 es el beb\u00e9 y qu\u00e9 es el agua sucia.<\/p>\n

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Foto por Lubomirkin<\/a> en Unsplash<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n

As\u00ed que, ya sea que t\u00fa o alguien que amas est\u00e9 pasando por algo que podr\u00edas llamar una \u201cdeconstrucci\u00f3n\u201d, te animo a que te abstengas de esta ansiosa imposici\u00f3n. En cambio, escucha las preguntas, empatiza con el dolor, afirma la bondad de la b\u00fasqueda y conf\u00eda en que aquellos que buscan la verdad encontrar\u00e1n lo que buscan (Mateo 7:7-8).<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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