{"id":21850,"date":"2020-03-21T06:23:56","date_gmt":"2020-03-21T10:23:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gravitycommons.com\/?p=21850"},"modified":"2025-03-07T18:54:55","modified_gmt":"2025-03-07T22:54:55","slug":"seeking-control-coronavirus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gravitycommons.com\/es\/seeking-control-coronavirus\/","title":{"rendered":"Buscando control durante la pandemia de coronavirus"},"content":{"rendered":"

En medio de esta pandemia, he notado una respuesta de algunos l\u00edderes cristianos que me resulta poco \u00fatil (y poco saludable). Admito que es algo que tambi\u00e9n reside en m\u00ed, as\u00ed que no solo estoy se\u00f1alando con el dedo, sino buscando un camino m\u00e1s excelente.<\/p>\n

Control confiado<\/h2>\n

Llamo a esta respuesta poco saludable \u201cControl de confianza\u201d.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Probablemente ya hayas escuchado este enfoque de alguien (quiz\u00e1s hasta lo hayas aplicado a ti mismo). \u201cControl con confianza\u201d suena como una fuerte garant\u00eda de que todo va a estar bien. \"Dios tiene el control y solo necesitamos fortalecer nuestra fe en esto\".\u201d<\/p>\n

Es la voz que dice: \u201cLo \u00fanico que debemos temer es el miedo mismo\u201d. Y si bien estas palabras pueden ser bien intencionadas, usualmente suenan m\u00e1s como un discurso motivacional que nos llama a tener fe en nuestra esperanza, en lugar de enfrentar nuestro dolor en el momento o admitir con vulnerabilidad que simplemente no sabemos lo que va a suceder a continuaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Si bien su emisor puede no tener esta intenci\u00f3n, las palabras de \"Control seguro\" tienden a dejar a quienes ya est\u00e1n preocupados sinti\u00e9ndose a\u00fan m\u00e1s preocupados y quiz\u00e1s tambi\u00e9n culpables. Culpables porque cualquier miedo o ansiedad que puedan tener sobre esta pandemia actual ahora se est\u00e1 se\u00f1alando como una falta de fe o incluso espec\u00edficamente, una falta de fe en el control de Dios.<\/p>\n

Si bien vale la pena discutir m\u00e1s a fondo qu\u00e9 significa que Dios est\u00e9 \u201cen control\u201d, una \"confianza total\" en el control es, en \u00faltima instancia, insensible a la realidad que muchos de nosotros estamos experimentando actualmente. Esta pandemia es preocupante. Los tiempos son inciertos. La ansiedad es ciertamente comprensible. No es reconfortante que te digan que no debes tener miedo cuando ya tienes miedo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

El amor expulsa el miedo<\/h2>\n

En un intento por disipar la ansiedad de otros, la voz del Control Seguro te llama a negar tu miedo, tomar mi mantra y repetir despu\u00e9s de m\u00ed: \u2019Dios tiene el control\u201c.\u201d<\/p>\n

Pero encuentro que \"Control seguro\" no da en el blanco. Si bien su intenci\u00f3n puede ser ayudar a los temerosos y ansiosos a alcanzar la confianza y la esperanza, la certeza y el control no son lo que expulsa el miedo. Solo el amor hace eso (1 Juan 4:18).<\/p>\n

El control confiado carece de amor. El amor es costoso. Amar a los dem\u00e1s no necesariamente asegura que obtendr\u00e1 el resultado deseado. A menudo lo expone a un dolor a\u00fan mayor. As\u00ed que, en lugar de exponerse a la vulnerabilidad de decir algo como: \u201cNo s\u00e9 qu\u00e9 va a pasar en esta situaci\u00f3n, pero s\u00ed creo que Dios es amor y nos encuentra aqu\u00ed mismo en nuestra realidad\u201d.\u201d<\/p>\n

La voz del Control de Confianza intenta evitar por completo la incertidumbre y la vulnerabilidad. Y el costo de esta evitaci\u00f3n es el amor.<\/p>\n

Entonces, en lugar de decir: \u201cDios est\u00e1 en control y no tienes nada que temer\u201d, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasar\u00eda si dij\u00e9ramos: \u201cDios es amor y \u00e9l est\u00e1 presente y obrando justo donde t\u00fa est\u00e1s\u201d? \u00bfC\u00f3mo podr\u00eda eso cambiar las cosas?Ben y Matt tambi\u00e9n grabaron un episodio de podcast sobre esto.<\/a>)<\/p>\n

Sugerir\u00eda que una forma en que esto cambia las cosas es que ya no intentar\u00edamos convencer a la gente de que est\u00e1 bien, sino que se nos permitir\u00eda sufrir junto con ellos en el sufrimiento que est\u00e1n experimentando.<\/p>\n

Amor que sufre con, no que arregla<\/h2>\n

Estoy aprendiendo que cuando las personas comparten sus miedos y ansiedades conmigo, especialmente ahora con el coronavirus, usualmente no me est\u00e1n dando situaciones para resolver sino, posiblemente, oportunidades para unirme a su realidad.<\/p>\n

Tal vez las personas se parezcan menos a autos averiados que necesitan un mec\u00e1nico y m\u00e1s a un pintor sin lienzo. Su necesidad no es que yo les diga que est\u00e1n bien o que repare sus defectos, sino darles algo sobre lo que pintar y expresarse, y sentarme con ellos mientras lo hacen.<\/p>\n

Estar con las personas mientras resuelven sus preocupaciones puede ser un trabajo lento. Nos convertimos en compa\u00f1eros de sufrimiento junto a ellas mientras vivimos en amor. El co-sufrimiento puede desenterrar nuestras ansiedades en el camino. El amor es as\u00ed. Se mueve en los momentos lentos, casi imperceptibles, y revela los deseos ocultos de todos los que se ven atrapados en su obra. Y eso es algo hermoso. Un tesoro en el que vale la pena invertir.<\/p>\n

A trav\u00e9s de esta pandemia, estoy aprendiendo que No est\u00e1 bien intentar que todos est\u00e9n bien<\/strong>. Es mejor conocer a las personas en la realidad con un amor vulnerable y buscar encarnar el amor de coparticipaci\u00f3n de Jes\u00fas.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

En medio de esta pandemia, he notado una respuesta de algunos l\u00edderes cristianos que me parece poco \u00fatil (y poco saludable). Admito que es algo en m\u00ed tambi\u00e9n, as\u00ed que no solo estoy se\u00f1alando con el dedo, sino que busco una manera m\u00e1s excelente. Control confiado: llamo a esta respuesta poco saludable \u201cControl confiado\u201d. 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